Thursday, February 26, 2015

Group M4M Sex Parties for the week of Friday, February 27th, to Thursday March 5th








My dear fellow group-sex aficionados:


Here is a listing of all the parties I *believe* to be happening this week. If the host/s has confirmed the details of the party directly with me then I list the details as "VERIFIED." If the hosts have not confirmed the party details with me, I list the details as "UNVERIFIED."


I highly recommend that you do not attend a party going solely off of the information here without contacting the hosts first, especially if the information here is UNVERIFIED. Most parties do require that you submit pics and stats and that you are added to an invite list before you can attend, and there is always the chance of last minute changes or cancellations.


Another great source for finding parties is the "Parties and Events" section of adam4adam.com, so I recommend that you check that site for parties as well, especially if you are looking for parties outside of the NYC area.


A GUIDE TO DOOR POLICIES



Here is a listing of what the different “DOOR POLICY” terms mean. These should not be taken as an indication of how “good” a party is. I have been to some Very Selective parties where I have been bored because there were mostly men standing around acting like they were all too good for each other, and I’ve also been to Open Door parties that have been full-out fuckfests filled with lots of hot group action. These categories are simply intended to be a guide as to whether the party is one you would physically fit in to and an indication as to what kinds of body types you will likely find there.


Here are the Door Policy Categories:



Very Selective – Generally only for men under age 45 with average (as in no bellies) to athletically fit bodies. Some of these parties have a lower age limit, with some limited to only men in their 20s and early 30s.

Selective – Similar to "Very Selective," but usually allowing a larger range of ages and some attractive slightly out-of-shape men. But you will also usually find quite a few men in great shape at these parties as well.

Somewhat Selective – A wide range of body types. You may find some above-average athletic men and also some out-of-shape men with extra pounds on them, but not overly obese. Most guys at these parties tend to have average bodies.

Not Selective – All body types are allowed. You still need to be on an invite list in order to attend, and with some Not Selective parties you may need to meet some other entrance criteria such as age or race.

Open Door – General admission. Everyone is welcome and you don’t need to be on an invite list in order to attend. Just show up.


Here are the parties for this Friday through Thursday:



Friday, February 27th



BEEF (Washington Heights) If you're into bears and playing safe then this would be the party for you. The atmosphere is sexy and social and the crowd is a nice mix of different races and ages (even if the crowd does tend to skew a bit younger than other bear parties I've been to). The space is comfortable with couches and a bed to fuck around on so there is always a lot of hot sex going on. Be aware that you have to be a member to attend the party and there usually is a wait to get on the list, so give yourself plenty of time to apply before you plan on going.
THE HOST SAYS: “A members-only club that hosts Manhattan's only safe-sex party for bears, cubs, otters, and the guys who love to fuck around with them. Held in a comfortable private apartment with two areas of play-space, couches, a bed, and a sexy atmosphere. For men of all shapes, sizes, and races. Complementary clothes check. Drinks and snacks also complementary."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: Very social and friendly
SS/BB: A Safe Sex party
DONATION: $10 before 9pm, $20 after
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, snacks, drinks, towel and shower
TIME: 8pm – Midnight, door closes at 11pm
FREQUENCY: Once a month on a Friday
CROWD: Around 30 guys of all different races and body types
AGE: 21 to 50s. About half the guys are in their 20s.
SPACE: Private Apartment
LIGHTING : Good
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Bears, cubs, chubs, otters and chasers, guys into safe-sex, guys who are friendly and social, guys who enjoy a diverse group of men and interracial interaction.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, tourists, guys who are only into “fit” guys, guys with racial hang-ups, guys who need to PnP in order to party.
GETTING IN: You need to be a member of BEEF in order to attend. To apply for a membership go to assactionparties.com and apply in the BEEF section.



METROPOLIS (Gramercy) The Friday night party format at the Gramercy Duplex combines five different parties (from five separate hosts) into one evening with each party having it's own dedicated entry time. Regardless of what party you arrive for and what time you enter, you are welcome to stay until the end of the evening at 3am.
THE HOSTS SAY: “Each Friday has a different line-up, offering something for everyone, especially for guys craving hot hardcore action. Two huge floors filled with hairy muscled jocks, smooth pumped-up studs, lean eager twinks, and rugged masculine men, all coming together naked and without attitude, confident with having a sac and able to hold their own in large active group scenes. All ages (over 21) and races welcome to attend, but must be fit, in-shape, and not a light-weight. Anyone looking for a ‘jock-perfect-only frame of mind group’ with self-inflated egos and self-conscious hands over their "pee-pees" should not apply, this event is not for you!"
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Social and Friendly
SS/BB: Both Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $25 entry, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
TIME: 8pm-3am
FREQUENCY: weekly
CROWD: 40-60 guys
AGE: All ages (over 21)
SPACE: private duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: 1st floor brightly-lit; (for the wrestling matches) 2nd floor semi-dark (for the sex orgy)
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with masculine men for hot, hardcore, no-attitude fun. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: For more party info, please visit www.gayguysglobal.net
For DADS & LADS, 8pm-9pm, contact with stats/pics lads4dads@gmail.com
For TESTOSTERONE, 9pm-10pm, contact with stats/pics testosteronenyc@gmail.com
For INK, 10pm-11pm, contact with stats/pics inksexparty@gmail.com
For PAPI & RED DRAGON, 11pm-12am, contact with stats/pics bobbyboyblue7@gmail.com
For BACKROOM, 12am-3am, contact with stats/pics bobbyboyblue7@gmail.com
For more party info, please visit www.gayguysglobal.net



THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.
THE HOST SAYS: "Hot playground with mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lub
TIME: 8pm-4am
FREQUENCY: Every Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Latinos, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to playgroundqueens@aol.com

NEW YORK CUMUNION "ALL NUDE" PARTY (NYCU) (Chelsea)
FROM THE HOSTS: CumUnion is a national men's party presented across the U.S., Canada and United Kingdom by CumHunt.com, sponsored by BBRT.com and hosted in New York by Cade/ MilkChocolateNYC Men's Party
THE HOST SAYS: The​ New York City edition of CumUnion is now structured as a Private Men's Membership Party where friendly, drama-free and drug-free MEN of all races, age 18 and over, are welcome to join. CumUnion Membership Cardholders agree to abide by party rules and receive admission discounts the first two hours at each bi-monthly event. Each party has a designated Oral Fetish/ Safe Play Zone on the 2nd level the first three hours of each party and a dimly lit Backroom for hardcore action Both men into uninhibited (BB) play, and men that play safe with condoms from beginning to end, are invited to get off in a fun, safe, welcoming and non-judgemental environment. Everyone encouraged to use the free condoms provided BUT our staff do not act as "Condom Police" for mature adult Gay men! Everyone required to respect everyone's individual party limits!!! Members required to follow posted Party Rules such as No Drugs; No alcoholic beverages/ drunken behavior; No Smoking; No Rude/ Aggressive Behavior or extreme play. Cell phones and cameras are not allowed in play areas and must be stored in the secured clothes check area along ALL valuables. Party helpers are on hand to monitor the party and handle any issue. Also, Michael, a licensed Mt. Sinai Hospital staff member, will be on hand during specific events for men interested in free on-site/confidential Men's Health Tests or PreP, men's health referral services."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: No attitude. Friendly regulars at every event
SS/BB: Safe Play Only on 2nd level first 2 hours; Safe/ BB play in Backroom
DONATION: $26 ($22 before 5pm w/ CumUnion or Milk NYC Membership Card)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms available
TIME: 9pm to 2:30am
FREQUENCY: Bi-monthly
CROWD: 80+ average joe's to in-shape men of all races
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Paddles Sex Club
LIGHTING: Good with some dark areas
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men into monitored/ safe play and Poz/ Poz-friendly guys into barebacking. Good fit for men that enjoy interracial interaction with both young/ fit men and middle-aged average joe's, bears and older men.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who have racial and age hang-ups. Guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: Email "NYCU" to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com. More info: www.cumunion.com





THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
THE HOSTS SAYS: "Weekly sex parties in Brooklyn NY for in-shape men of color and a very very select few whites who send pics and get approved....I have the biggest and best Safe Sex party that continues to grow and become more popular. My parties are discrete and well organized. No shirts or under shirts are allowed. If your stomach is too big, you will not get in. No weed smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. I provide a safe, comfortable, spacious environment for men of color."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS / BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $15
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, refreshments, fresh clean towel
TIME: 12midnight-7am
FREQUENCY: held every Friday, Sat and Sunday
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SPACE: Huge space, two floors.
LIGHTING: A bit dark but eyes get used to it.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men of color, men into men of color, men who like to play safe
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, out of shape guys.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@alisthomeinspection.com with your pics and stats


ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea) After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. This is not a mandatory clothes check party but it is highly recommended that you check your valuables. Pickpockets have been known to clean out pockets while pants are around ankles. I also find the level of aggression to be higher at this party than most and that it seems to attract a handful of men that do not know how to respect boundaries or take "no" for an answer. But as long as you go in armed with this knowledge and react accordingly, there are usually some hot early morning times to be had here.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: no attitude
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: condom/lubes
TIME: 3am-7am, (The party really takes off around 4am when many bars close)
FREQUENCY: every Friday and Saturday night
CROWD: Gets around 70 people on Fridays and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning).
AGE: no restriction
SPACE: Paddles sex club
LIGHTING: Good, some dark areas
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who like a diverse crowd, voyours, average and out-of-shape guys, tourists/visitors, guys who want to get off after the bars before they head home.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys only into gym bodies, guys with attitude.
GETTING IN: Check out Paddles' website for location and directions: http://paddlesnyc.com/




Saturday, February 28th


NEW YORK CUMUNION "UNDERWEAR NAKED MEMBERSHIP PARTY" PARTY (NYCU) (Chelsea)
FROM THE HOSTS: CumUnion is a national men's party presented across the U.S., Canada and United Kingdom by CumHunt.com, sponsored by BBRT.com and hosted in New York by Cade/ MilkChocolateNYC Men's Party.
THE HOST SAYS: The​ New York City edition of CumUnion is now structured as a Private Men's Membership Party where friendly, drama-free and drug-free MEN of all races, age 18 and over, are welcome to join. CumUnion Membership Cardholders agree to abide by party rules and receive admission discounts the first two hours at each bi-monthly event. Each party has a designated Oral Fetish/ Safe Play Zone on the 2nd level the first three hours of each party and a dimly lit Backroom for hardcore action Both men into uninhibited (BB) play, and men that play safe with condoms from beginning to end, are invited to get off in a fun, safe, welcoming and non-judgemental environment. Everyone encouraged to use the free condoms provided BUT our staff do not act as "Condom Police" for mature adult Gay men! Everyone required to respect everyone's individual party limits!!! Members required to follow posted Party Rules such as No Drugs; No alcoholic beverages/ drunken behavior; No Smoking; No Rude/ Aggressive Behavior or extreme play. Cell phones and cameras are not allowed in play areas and must be stored in the secured clothes check area along ALL valuables. Party helpers are on hand to monitor the party and handle any issue. Also, Michael, a licensed Mt. Sinai Hospital staff member, will be on hand during specific events for men interested in free on-site/confidential Men's Health Tests or PreP, men's health referral services."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: No attitude. Friendly regulars at every event
SS/BB: Safe Play Only on 2nd level first 2 hours; Safe/ BB play in Backroom
DONATION: $22 ($16 b4 5pm w/ MilkNYC Membership Card)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms available
TIME: 3pm to 8pm
FREQUENCY: Bi-monthly
CROWD: 80+ average joe's to in-shape men of all races
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Paddles Sex Club
LIGHTING: Good with some dark areas
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men into monitored/ safe play and Poz/ Poz-friendly guys into barebacking. Good fit for men that enjoy interracial interaction with both young/ fit men and middle-aged average joe's, bears and older men.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who have racial and age hang-ups. Guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: Email "NYCU" to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com. More info: www.cumunion.com



NEW YORK JACKS (Midtown) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off.
THE HOSTS SAY: "Get naked with us and enjoy man to man cock play....Mutual masturbation between consenting adults is legal and safe. Probably the safest activity you can do except for solo J/O. We are a friendly group of guys and we are all there for the same reason and to have fun. You'll see guys there of all ages, body types, sizes, etc. There will be tall, short, hairy, well endowed, young, older, all races, gay, married, bi-, etc. We don't discriminate against physical attributes, only inappropriate behavior."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: N/A
DONATION: $10 for members and students, $20 for non-members and free admission if your membership number is under 1000.
SUPPLIES: N/A
TIME: Doors open 4pm to 6pm, jerking until 7pm.
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Tuesday. (Check for different hours on Tuesday)
CROWD: Varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. (Usual attendance numbers have not been given.)
AGES: 18-60s
SS/BB: N/A
SPACE: A loft-type space
SUPPLIES: N/A
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Request location and directions at their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/
Follow them on Twitter twitter.com/nyjacks and on Tumblr at nyjacks.tumblr.com



DICKPLAY PARTY (Bronx) Party at Ed and Steve’s, an interracial couple. The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian. Most guys are naked, but not required.
THE HOSTS SAY: "Announcing the grand reopening at new Bronx location.Mandatory Total Nudity (no undergarments, jock straps, flip flops, socks, headgear, jewelry) We provide refreshments and snacks, condoms and lube. Bring your own booze. No glass bottles.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: Laid back, no attitude
TIME: 7pm to 2am
CROWD: 20-40 men
AGES: 18-60s (Average age is 35-45+)
DONATION: $10 before 8pm $20 after
SS/BB: Some safe sex, but mostly BB
SPACE: Private apartment
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Usually twice a month, but often weekly (on weekends)
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve



JACKS OF COLOR "DUPLEX SATURDAY NIGHT SPECIAL" (Chelsea) Jacks of Color (often referred to simply as J.O.C.) is a New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." One of my favorite of the "open door" general admission parties. It’s huge and has themed parties including leather, massage, and afternoons on weekends. And the host is one of the sweetest guys I've ever had the pleasure of meeting.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: doors 8:00 to 4am, goes 'til 3am
CROWD: 50-70
AGE: 18-60s
SS/BB: some safe sex, but also quite a bit of BB

DONATION: $20 plus $2 clothes check
SPACE: Paddles
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Monday night, and often other weekday nights and weekends.
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to JacksOfColor@gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com



THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.
THE HOST SAYS: "Hot playground with mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
TIME: 8pm-5:30am
FREQUENCY: Every Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Latinos, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: For more party info contact the hosts at playgroundqueens@aol.com




LADS FOR HOT DADS (Midtown East) The host describes this as an "anything goes" underwear sex party.
THE HOST SAYS: "All races welcome for hot interracial sex. Its best to arrive all of you within the first three hours but you can stay till 4:00am. All nude/underwear only.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Unknown
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
DONATION: $16 10pm-11pm ("Bring exact change - none given back") $20 after
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, drinks
TIME: 10pm-4am
CROWD: Unknown
FREQUENCY: Saturdays
LIGHTING: Unknown
AGE: No ages specified
SPACE: Unknown
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into dad/son play, guys into barebacking, guys into interracial sex
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who like to play safe, guys with racial or age hang-ups
GETTING IN: For more info. call 347-746-1868




BUTNAKKED DUKES (Midtown)
THE HOSTS SAY: "For slim, fit, muscular and under 45ish Brothas-Latinos. Sorry but no smoking or any kind of drugs. Cellphones and watch lights not allowed in back areas.
Sign in with ya email address even tho we have it. U will need if u forget ya bag
Handle ya hygiene before you get to party. Don't tie up the bathrooms!"
DOOR POLICY: Selective for guys under 45 in decent shape
VIBE: N/A
SS/BB: Both Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20 (first hour or first 25 dudes) $22 after (please bring exact change)
SUPPLIES: Towels, supplies, and liquids provided
TIME: 11:30pm-5:30am
FREQUENCY: several times a month, usually on a Friday
CROWD: 100 guys
AGE: 21 to mid 40's
SPACE:
LIGHTING: N/A
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men looking to play with men of color.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys looking to play with white men. Out of shape men.
GETTING IN: Send stats and a recent shirtless pic from the waist up to nubiandukesnyc@yahoo.com



THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
THE HOSTS SAYS: "Weekly sex parties in Brooklyn NY for in-shape men of color and a very very select few whites who send pics and get approved....I have the biggest and best Safe Sex party that continues to grow and become more popular. My parties are discrete and well organized. No shirts or under shirts are allowed. If your stomach is too big, you will not get in. No weed smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. I provide a safe, comfortable, spacious environment for men of color."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS / BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $15
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, refreshments, fresh clean towels
TIME: 12midnight-7am
FREQUENCY: held every Friday, Sat and Sunday
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SPACE: Huge space, two floors.
LIGHTING: A bit dark but eyes get used to it.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men of color, men into men of color, men who like to play safe
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, out of shape guys.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@alisthomeinspection.com with your pics and stats



ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea) After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. This is not a mandatory clothes check party but it is highly recommended that you check your valuables. Pickpockets have been known to clean out pockets while pants are around ankles. I also find the level of aggression to be higher at this party than most and that it seems to attract a handful of men that do not know how to respect boundaries or take "no" for an answer. But as long as you go in armed with this knowledge and react accordingly, there are usually some hot early morning times to be had here.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: no attitude
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: condom/lubes
TIME: 3am-7am, (The party really takes off around 4am when many bars close)
FREQUENCY: every Friday and Saturday night
CROWD: Gets around 70 people on Fridays and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning).
AGE: no restriction
SPACE: Paddles sex club
LIGHTING: Good, some dark areas
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who like a diverse crowd, voyours, average and out-of-shape guys, tourists/visitors, guys who want to get off after the bars before they head home.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys only into gym bodies, guys with attitude.
GETTING IN: Check out Paddles' website for location and directions: http://paddlesnyc.com/


Sunday, March 1st


THE BEAR PARTY (Chelsea)
THE HOST SAYS: "NYC's premier sex party for bears, cubs, chubs and chasers."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: S/S and BB. "We encourage safe sex and provide condoms and lube but don't police it. "
DONATION: $25
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube
TIME: 1:30 to 5:30pm
FREQUENCY: Weekly on Sundays
CROWD: 30-50 guys of all ages
LOCATION:Paddles club, basement level
LIGHTING: Good, dark in some rooms
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races, average and out-of-shape guys.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies. Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: For more info you may contact info@bearpartynyc.com or go to bearpartynyc.com to join


BEARCAVE (Gramercy)
THE HOSTS SAY: “This is an all-inclusive party for all big men of different shapes, sizes, races, and their admirers. Bringing the Bear and Chub Communities together for hot steamy afternoon fun. A great way for anyone looking to get off before the weekend wraps up."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Social and Friendly
SS/BB: A mix of safe sex and barebacking
DONATION: $25, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
TIME: 2pm-6pm (Doors close at 5pm)
FREQUENCY: Weekly
CROWD: 40-50 guys, all welcome: bears, cubs, chubs, super chubs, twinks, otters, wolves, and bulls
AGE: All ages (over 21)
SPACE: Private duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: Good, some darker areas upstairs
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with hairy and large masculine men. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction. Men into facial hair, tattoos, and fur-covered action.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: Request invite at: bearcavenyc@verizon.net. You can find more info at: www.gayguysglobal.net





NEW YORK JACKS (Midtown) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off.
THE HOSTS SAY: "Get naked with us and enjoy man to man cock play....Mutual masturbation between consenting adults is legal and safe. Probably the safest activity you can do except for solo J/O. We are a friendly group of guys and we are all there for the same reason and to have fun. You'll see guys there of all ages, body types, sizes, etc. There will be tall, short, hairy, well endowed, young, older, all races, gay, married, bi-, etc. We don't discriminate against physical attributes, only inappropriate behavior."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: N/A
DONATION: $25 ($20 with membership card)
SUPPLIES: N/A
TIME: Doors open 4pm to 6pm, jerking until 7pm.
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Tuesday. (Check for different hours on Tuesday)
CROWD: Varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. (Usual attendance numbers have not been given.)
AGES: 18-60s
SS/BB: N/A
SPACE: A loft-type space
SUPPLIES: N/A
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Request location and directions at their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/
Follow them on Twitter twitter.com/nyjacks and on Tumblr at nyjacks.tumblr.com



PEAK (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station.
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 6pm to 11pm (doors close at 10pm)
FREQUENCY: Every Friday and Tuesday (Mixed Safe Sex and BB parties every Sunday and Thursday.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.



GOLDEN BOYS USA NAKED KEGGER PARTY (Park Slope, Brooklyn)
THE HOSTS SAY: "The biggest and best naked or underwear party of them all ... this infamous party now gets over 200 hot inshape pre-approved younger guys at the "GBU Frat House" in Brooklyn. There is a watersports element to this party but you don't have to be into W/S to have fun at this party. The watersports area is contained and can be easily avoided if it's not your thing. There's a DJ, an open beer bar, many rooms, slings and a maze that makes this location the ultimate play space. In shape guys 18-30ish only. You do not need a six pack to get in, but you can't be overweight or above early 30's. All proportional types welcome. Skinny guys are always a plus.We strongly recommend condom use, especially in a environment where you don't know status of the guys you are having sex with. Having condom less sex is at your own risk. If you engage in condom less sex, it is assumed that you are either are on PrEP, Truvada, or undetectable. We urge everyone to wear condoms, and it is mandatory if your partner asks you to. "

VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Very Selective
VIBE: Very chill
TIME: 6pm-1am
CROWD: Over 200 guys - mixed races but predominantly white
AGES: 18-30ish years old. Average age is 23
DONATION: $20 before 11pm, $25 after 11pm. (Under 21 $10 all night with valid ID). Additional $3 for clothes check.
SS/BB: Mostly safe sex, some BB
SPACE: Huge underground basement space. (Have regular rooms and wet rooms).
SUPPLIES: We include everything from the open bar all night to snacks... condoms and lube and towels and a shower.
FREQUENCY: Held every other month on the second Saturday
LIGHTING: Sexy mood lighting. Some rooms dimmer than others.
GETTING IN: Email ChrisHawkeGBU@aol.com or check out www.GoldenBoysUSA.com
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Younger guys who want to party with guys of their own age. No attitude chill crowd. You can come explore and participate or just watch and meet or talk to people. Very social towards the front, very sexual in the rooms towards the back.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys looking for older daddy or bear types.
GETTING IN: Send your email with your age and clear face / body pics to ChrisHawke@gmail.com



NEW YORK CUMUNION LATIN LECHE UNDERWEAR PARTY (NYCU) (Queens) CumUnion is a national men's party presented across the U.S., Canada and United Kingdom by CumHunt.com, sponsored by BBRT.com and hosted in New York by Cade/ MilkChocolateNYC Men's Party.
THE HOST SAYS: The​ New York City edition of CumUnion is now structured as a Private Men's Membership Party where friendly, drama-free and drug-free MEN of all races, age 18 and over, are welcome to join. CumUnion Membership Cardholders agree to abide by party rules and receive admission discounts the first two hours at each bi-monthly event. Each party has a designated Oral Fetish/ Safe Play Zone on the 2nd level the first three hours of each party and a dimly lit Backroom for hardcore action Both men into uninhibited (BB) play, and men that play safe with condoms from beginning to end, are invited to get off in a fun, safe, welcoming and non-judgemental environment. Everyone encouraged to use the free condoms provided BUT our staff do not act as "Condom Police" for mature adult Gay men! Everyone required to respect everyone's individual party limits!!! Members required to follow posted Party Rules such as No Drugs; No alcoholic beverages/ drunken behavior; No Smoking; No Rude/ Aggressive Behavior or extreme play. Cell phones and cameras are not allowed in play areas and must be stored in the secured clothes check area along ALL valuables. Party helpers are on hand to monitor the party and handle any issue. Also, Michael, a licensed Mt. Sinai Hospital staff member, will be on hand during specific events for men interested in free on-site/confidential Men's Health Tests or PreP, men's health referral services. DRESS CODE: Naked, jockstrap, underwear. Oral Room w/ Glory Holes; dimly backroom, private booths and video lounge, lube, condoms, sodas, bottled water, mints, mouthwash, secured clothes check included.
NO alcoholic beverages/ drunken behavior; rude/aggressive dudes, drug use or tweekers, just hot man to man action! Poppers are OK."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: No attitude. Friendly regulars at every event
SS/BB: Safe Play Only on 2nd level first 2 hours; Safe/ BB play in Backroom
DONATION: $26 ($22 before 5pm w/ CumUnion or Milk NYC Membership Card)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms available
TIME: 6pm to 1am
FREQUENCY: Bi-monthly
CROWD: 80+ average joe's to in-shape men of all races
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Rainbow Playground
LIGHTING: Good with some dark areas
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men into monitored/ safe play and Poz/ Poz-friendly guys into barebacking. Good fit for men that enjoy interracial interaction with both young/ fit men and middle-aged average joe's, bears and older men.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who have racial and age hang-ups. Guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: Email "NYCU" to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com. More info: www.cumunion.com



THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.
THE HOST SAYS: "Hot playground with mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $17
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
TIME: 6pm-2am
FREQUENCY: Every Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Latinos, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: For more party info contact the hosts at playgroundqueens@aol.com



NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) For anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 7pm-2am
CROWD: varies
AGE: It's always a mixed crowd in terms of age.
SS/BB: Safe sex
SPACE: Held in a BDSM club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off.
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday night
LIGHTING: At 11pm they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like).
GETTING IN: Check out the site at www.NYBondageClub.com



SXVP PARTY (Midtown) You know how sometimes guys refer to parties as “stand-and-pose parties” where the men spend less time having sex and more time sizing each other up or looking like they are too good for each other? This is that kind of party.
THE HOST SAYS: “SXVP is only for good looking guys that are in great physical shape. When you arrive you will be asked your email. Your email must be on the list to enter. If it looks as though you do not fit the criteria you will be asked to lift up your shirt and show your upper body."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Very Selective
VIBE: Lots of attitude.
SS / BB: Mix of safe sex and BB
DONATION: $25 before 9pm, $30 after
SUPPLIES: Drinks and light snacks
TIME: 8pm-2am. Door closes at 1am.
FREQUENCY: About once a month, usually on a Sunday
CROWD: Somewhat small for such a large space
AGES: mostly 20s and 30s, some in-shape guys in their 40s
SPACE: Clean, loft-type space, two bathrooms, shower
LIGHTING: Good with some darker areas
GETTING IN: Send stats, send face and shirtless pictures to sxvpnyc@gmail.com



THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
THE HOSTS SAYS: "Weekly sex parties in Brooklyn NY for in-shape men of color and a very very select few whites who send pics and get approved....I have the biggest and best Safe Sex party that continues to grow and become more popular. My parties are discrete and well organized. No shirts or under shirts are allowed. If your stomach is too big, you will not get in. No weed smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. I provide a safe, comfortable, spacious environment for men of color."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS / BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $15
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, refreshments, fresh clean towels
TIME: 9pm-3am
FREQUENCY: held every Friday, Sat and Sunday
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SPACE: Huge space, two floors.
LIGHTING: A bit dark but eyes get used to it.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men of color, men into men of color, men who like to play safe
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, out of shape guys.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@alisthomeinspection.com with your pics and stats


FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn) From the host: "This is an all nude party. No exception and no negotiation about it at all. Strip at door. For fit men in shape only, no one waist over 36 will not get in."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: no attitude.
TIME: SUN. 11:30pm-4am
CROWD: AGES: mostly 20s and 30s, few in-shape men in their 40s
DONATION: $10 all night
SS/BB: A safe sex party
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: Drinks, snacks, condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Sundays, Tuesdays and Thursdays.
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to finaldestination1514@yahoo.com



Monday, March 2nd


PEAK (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station.
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 5pm to 11pm (doors close at 10pm)
FREQUENCY: Every Friday and Tuesday (Mixed Safe Sex and BB parties every Sunday and Thursday.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.



JACKS OF COLOR "MASSAGE AND PLAY MONDAY" (Chelsea) Jacks of Color (often referred to simply as J.O.C.) is a New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." One of my favorite of the "open door" general admission parties. It’s huge and has themed parties including leather, massage, and afternoons on weekends. And the host is one of the sweetest guys I've ever had the pleasure of meeting.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2am
CROWD: 50-70
AGE: 18-60s
SS/BB: some safe sex, but also quite a bit of BB
SPACE: Paddles
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Monday night, and often other weekday nights and weekends.
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to JacksOfColor@gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com



HANDSOMENYC.COM (Astoria, Queens) Host Hunteur brings his party to Astoria on Monday nights to the Rainbow Playground, home of the Omega parties.
THE HOST SAYS: “So many parties out there are all about the ‘sleaze.’ What’s wrong with bonding with a great group of exceptional, intelligent men- the sexy 'guy next door' type? All races welcome. This is a place to enjoy the company of handsome and good-hearted great quality guys with sense of community. We are supportive of the artistic community with nights devoted to the arts. Guest appearance by porn stars, fantasy dress up, as well as fun giveaways (underwear and porn), and great promotions to pull in hotter guys."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $22
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, cookies/cake, refreshments
TIME: 8pm to 3am, doors close at 1am.
FREQUENCY: Every Monday night
CROWD: Average attendance is 30 to 60 great quality guys
AGE: 23 to 55-ish
SPACE: A large industrial loft-type space with many private cabins and rooms and a cinema lounge.
LIGHTING: big space, 5000 sq. feet with several different lighting levels
A GOOD PARTY FOR: those who want an erotic connection with upscale sexy guys.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: guys with attitude or 'high-maintenance" types. The host is “looking for happy and upbeat dudes that want to add their good energy to the night.”
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to Oliver at (hunteur1@gmail.com). You can find more info at (http://www.HandsomeNYC.com).


MUSCLE GROUP (West Harlem/w140s) This is a small sex party in a private apartment. This party can be hit and miss depending on how many and who show up, but when it's "hit" it can be a very hot party indeed. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies in the city. At most parties guys are having sex one-on-one or in threesomes--at this one there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 9:30-11pm, occasionally lunch parties
CROWD: 4-10 guys, racially mixed very hot to average
AGES: 18-40 YOs
DONATION: Free
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
SPACE: small studio apartment
SUPPLIES: condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: parties at random, but often on Mondays,
LIGHTING: Excellent
GETTING IN: Send pics and Stats to: BIHUNKGROUP@aol.com



Tuesday, March 3rd

AFTER WORK (Midtown)
THE HOSTS SAY: " Lose the tie and corporate clothing! Hot weekly afternoon get together for guys looking to get off before heading home. If you have freinds bring them with you. It's all about getting off at the end of the day."
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Social and Friendly
SS/BB: A mix of safe sex and barebacking
DONATION: $20 entry, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
TIME: 4pm-8pm
FREQUENCY: weekly
CROWD: 20-30 guys
AGE: All ages (over 21)
SPACE: private duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: 1st floor brightly lit. Second floor dark lighting
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with masculine men for hot, hardcore, no-attitude fun.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys.
GETTING IN: For invite please stats and pics to: Afterworkorgy@gmail.com


NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off.
THE HOSTS SAY: "Get naked with us and enjoy man to man cock play....Mutual masturbation between consenting adults is legal and safe. Probably the safest activity you can do except for solo J/O. We are a friendly group of guys and we are all there for the same reason and to have fun. You'll see guys there of all ages, body types, sizes, etc. There will be tall, short, hairy, well endowed, young, older, all races, gay, married, bi-, etc. We don't discriminate against physical attributes, only inappropriate behavior."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: N/A
DONATION: $25 ($20 with membership card)
SUPPLIES: N/A
TIME: Doors open 7pm to 9pm, jerking until 10pm
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Tuesday. (Check for different hours on Sunday.)
CROWD: Varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. (Usual attendance numbers have not been given.)
AGES: 18-60s
SS/BB: N/A
SPACE: Paddles Sex Club
SUPPLIES: N/A
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Request location and directions at their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/
Follow them on Twitter twitter.com/nyjacks and on Tumblr at nyjacks.tumblr.com


BEARCAVE TUESDAY (Gramercy)
THE HOSTS SAY: “This is an all-inclusive party for all big men of different shapes, sizes, races, and their admirers. Bringing the Bear and Chub Communities together for hot steamy week night of fun. A great way for anyone looking to get off early in the work week."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Social and Friendly
SS/BB: A mix of safe sex and barebacking
DONATION: $20, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
TIME: 8pm-Midnight (Doors close at 11pm)
FREQUENCY: Weekly
CROWD: 30-40 guys, all welcome: bears, cubs, chubs, super chubs, twinks, otters, wolves, and bulls. Also guys who have small dicks and need a place to feel comfortable.
AGE: All ages (over 21)
SPACE: Private duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: Good, some darker areas upstairs
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with hairy masculine men. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction. Men into facial hair, tattoos, and fur-covered action. Guys who like small dicks and chubby dudes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: Request invite at: bearcavenyc@verizon.net



PEAK (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station.
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Friday and Tuesday (Mixed Safe Sex and BB parties every Sunday and Thursday.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.



Wednesday, March 4th


REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) "Slurpee Coach has the parties in his apartment."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: No Attitude
TIME: 7-11pm (Wednesday), early afternoon-evening (Saturday)
CROWD: TK
SS/BB: TK
SPACE: Private apartment
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY: weekly (Wednesday), occassionally (Saturday)
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com



THE BEAR PARTY (Times Square)
THE HOST SAYS: "NYC's premier sex party for bears, cubs, chubs and chasers."
Clothes check policy at the Time Square location. It's completely nude so no underwear is allowed; however, if you're shy they have small towels you can hold over yourself.
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: S/S and BB. "We encourage safe sex and provide condoms and lube but don't police it. "
DONATION: $25
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube
TIME: 1:30 to 5:30pm doors closet at 10
FREQUENCY: Weekly on Sundays
CROWD: 30-50 guys of all ages
LOCATION: Times Square Loft
LIGHTING: Good, dark in some rooms
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races, average and out-of-shape guys.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies. Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: For more info you may contact info@bearpartynyc.com or go to bearpartynyc.com to join



HANDSOMENYC.COM (Chelsea) This party from host Hunteur replaces Hard Drive on Wednesdays.
THE HOST SAYS: “So many parties out there are all about the ‘sleaze.’ What’s wrong with bonding with a great group of exceptional, intelligent men- the sexy 'guy next door' type? All races welcome. This is a place to enjoy the company of handsome and good-hearted great quality guys with sense of community, we also offer totally free STD Testing and referral to free health care for life and also referral to Harm Reduction Services. We have a permanent medical office on location. You do not need to pay the entrance fee to access our services- you may get tested and leave. We are supportive of the artistic community with nights devoted to the arts. Guest appearance by porn stars, fantasy dress up, as well as fun giveaways (underwear and porn), and great promotions to pull in hotter guys."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $22 before 9pm, $27 after, or use your silver VIP card for $22 admission all night long.
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, cookies/cake, refreshments
TIME: 8pm to 3am, doors close at 1am.
FREQUENCY: Every Wednesday night
CROWD: Average attendance is 30 to 60 great quality guys
AGE: 23 to 55-ish
SPACE: Paddles – a huge, clean, 5000 sq. feet of professional play space. A fully licensed Commercial Sex Venue licensed by the state and also licensed as a medical off-site testing facility with a secure guarded area to keep your belongings locked up and safe.
LIGHTING: big space, 5000 sq. feet with several different lighting levels
A GOOD PARTY FOR: those who want an erotic connection with upscale sexy guys.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: guys with attitude or 'high-maintenance" types. The host is “looking for happy and upbeat dudes that want to add their good energy to the night.”
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to Oliver at (hunteur1@gmail.com). You can find more info at (http://www.HandsomeNYC.com).



PRIVATE PARTY (Midtown West) Great social sex party with a good mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before: social, safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is plenty of hot sex at this party – not just standing around. Recommended.
THE HOST SAYS: “PRIVATE PARTY is an exclusive monthly, all-nude, safe-sex and social event for well-built, well-groomed, handsome, professional men and students 18- 45. PRIVATE PARTY events are safe, discreet, friendly, completely drug-free and open only to our members. In order to maintain our standards all potential members are screened by phone prior to a brief confirmatory in-person interview. Members of this large organized group are in fine physical and mental shape ,work-out/exercise on a regular basis in addition to being confident, interesting and accomplished. This is a highly screened group who practice safe-sex and enjoy mixing and meeting in a drug-free, friendly, all-nude, social and sexual environment."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Very Selective
VIBE: Social and Friendly
SS/BB: A safe-sex party
DONATION: $25 and $1 clothes check
SUPPLIES: Drinks, snacks, condoms and lube, towels and shower amenities
TIME: 8:00-11:30 (Sept. -Mar.)
FREQUENCY: Monthly, usually on a Wednesday
CROWD: 80 to 100+ guys, all races but predominately White, mostly students and white-collar professionals
AGE: 18-45 (no one over 45, average age is 25-35)
SPACE: Safe, clean private loft apartment
LIGHTING: Atmospheric lighting with full visibility while appropriate for the mood.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into well-build, well-groomed white-collar professionals and students, guys into safe-sex, guys into younger “twink” types, guys tired of the bar scene, first-timers.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into leather or other various fetishes. Guys into facial hair, body hair or tats. Guys into masculine beefy types. Guys who like to PnP.
GETTING IN: E-mail PRIVATE.PARTY@MSN.COM for complete info.



Thursday, March 5th


EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy)
THE HOSTS SAY: “Lunch-time party for businessmen looking to hook up weekday afternoons, offering guys who generally can't play during the evening hours (because of wives, girlfriends, boyfriends, or partnered) a chance to bust a quick afternoon nut in a large group setting.”
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Social and Friendly
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20 entry, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
TIME: 12pm-3pm
FREQUENCY: weekly
CROWD: 30-40 guys, all races welcome, a mixture of gay, bi, and straight-curious men looking to explore their sexuality in a safe environment.
AGE: 21-55, most guys in their 30's and 40's
SPACE: private duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with the suit-and-tie crowd. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction. Men in their 30s and 40s and Jocks who like older Daddy types. Guys who find wedding rings a turn-on.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) and Stats to: executivelunchnyc@gmail.com. You can find more info at: www.gayguysglobal.net



THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.
THE HOST SAYS: "Hot playground with mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $15
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
TIME: 5:30pm-3am
FREQUENCY: Every Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Latinos, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: For more party info contact the hosts at playgroundqueens@aol.com



PEAK (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station.
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 5pm to 10pm (doors close at 9pm)
FREQUENCY: Every Friday and Tuesday (Mixed Safe Sex and BB parties every Sunday and Thursday.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.


FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn)
From the host: "This is an all nude party. No exception and no negotiation about it at all. Strip at door. For fit men in shape only, no one waist over 36 will not get in."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: no attitude.
TIME: SUN. 11:30pm-4am
CROWD: AGES: mostly 20s and 30s, few in-shape men in their 40s
DONATION: $10 all night
SS/BB: A safe sex party
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: Drinks, snacks, condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Sundays, Tuesdays and Thursdays.
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to finaldestination1514@yahoo.com





See you there men!




Thursday, February 19, 2015

Group M4M Sex Parties for the week of Friday, February 20th, to Thursday February 26th






My dear fellow group-sex aficionados:

Here is a listing of all the parties I *believe* to be happening this week. If the host/s has confirmed the details of the party directly with me then I list the details as "VERIFIED." If the hosts have not confirmed the party details with me, I list the details as "UNVERIFIED." 
I highly recommend that you do not attend a party going solely off of the information here without contacting the hosts first, especially if the information here is UNVERIFIED. Most parties do require that you submit pics and stats and that you are added to an invite list before you can attend, and there is always the chance of last minute changes or cancellations. 

Another great source for finding parties is the "Parties and Events" section of adam4adam.com, so I recommend that you check that site for parties as well, especially if you are looking for parties outside of the NYC area.


A GUIDE TO DOOR POLICIES

Here is a listing of what the different “DOOR POLICY” terms mean. These should not be taken as an indication of how “good” a party is. I have been to some Very Selective parties where I have been bored because there were mostly men standing around acting like they were all too good for each other, and I’ve also been to Open Door parties that have been full-out fuckfests filled with lots of hot group action. These categories are simply intended to be a guide as to whether the party is one you would physically fit in to and an indication as to what kinds of body types you will likely find there.  

Here are the Door Policy Categories:

Very Selective – Generally only for men under age 45 with average (as in no bellies) to athletically fit bodies. Some of these parties have a lower age limit, with some limited to only men in their 20s and early 30s.

Selective – Similar to "Very Selective," but usually allowing a larger range of ages and some attractive slightly out-of-shape men. But you will also usually find quite a few men in great shape at these parties as well.

Somewhat Selective – A wide range of body types. You may find some above-average athletic men and also some out-of-shape men with extra pounds on them, but not overly obese. Most guys at these parties tend to have average bodies.

Not Selective – All body types are allowed. You still need to be on an invite list in order to attend, and with some Not Selective parties you may need to meet some other entrance criteria such as age or race.

Open Door – General admission. Everyone is welcome and you don’t need to be on an invite list in order to attend. Just show up.


Here are the parties for this Friday through Thursday:



Friday, February 20th
METROPOLIS (Gramercy) The Friday night party format at the Gramercy Duplex combines five different parties (from five separate hosts) into one evening with each party having it's own dedicated entry time. Regardless of what party you arrive for and what time you enter, you are welcome to stay until the end of the evening at 3am.
THE HOSTS SAY: “Each Friday has a different line-up, offering something for everyone, especially for guys craving hot hardcore action. Two huge floors filled with hairy muscled jocks, smooth pumped-up studs, lean eager twinks, and rugged masculine men, all coming together naked and without attitude, confident with having a sac and able to hold their own in large active group scenes. All ages (over 21) and races welcome to attend, but must be fit, in-shape, and not a light-weight. Anyone looking for a ‘jock-perfect-only frame of mind group’ with self-inflated egos and self-conscious hands over their "pee-pees" should not apply, this event is not for you!"

VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Social and Friendly 
SS/BB: A mix of safe sex and barebacking
DONATION: $25 entry, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
TIME: 8pm-3am
FREQUENCY: weekly
CROWD: 40-60 guys
AGE: All ages (over 21)
SPACE: private duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: 1st floor brightly-lit; (for the wrestling matches) 2nd floor semi-dark (for the sex orgy)
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with masculine men for hot, hardcore, no-attitude fun. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy.

GETTING IN: For more party info, please visit www.gayguysglobal.net
For DADS & LADS, 8pm-9pm, contact with stats/pics lads4dads@gmail.com
For TESTOSTERONE, 9pm-10pm, contact with stats/pics testosteronenyc@gmail.com
For INK, 10pm-11pm, contact with stats/pics inksexparty@gmail.com
For PAPI & RED DRAGON, 11pm-12am, contact with stats/pics bobbyboyblue7@gmail.com
For BACKROOM, 12am-3am, contact with stats/pics bobbyboyblue7@gmail.com
For more party info, please visit www.gayguysglobal.net

 
THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.
THE HOST SAYS: "Hot playground with mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB:
A mix of safe sex and barebacking 
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lub
TIME: 8pm-4am
FREQUENCY: Every Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Latinos, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to playgroundqueens@aol.com


MYKONOS SEX PARTY (JACKSON HEIGHTS)
FROM THE HOSTS: "Come join us for a Hot Underwear or all nude sex party in
Jackson Heights Queens. Play with guys from all races into insatiable sex with decent to in shape hard and pumped up masculine men. Held in a large pre-war apt. Two large rooms from semi light to dark for an all interracial friendly group orgy night of hardcore man sex! Relaxed sexually charged environment and gay forward neighborhood. Address is 35-06 73 street Apt 4F. Ring bell to be buzzed in. All details are here on the ad so come just join in Friday's and Sunday evening. Guys don't waste time with endless conversation and questions when they arrive but quickly start playing."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open door
VIBE: Social with a friendly host
SS / BB: A Safe Sex party
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: Beer, Condoms, lube, Clothes Check provided.
TIME: 10pm to 5am
FREQUENCY: Weekly Fridays and Sundays
CROWD: 20-50 guys
AGES: 20's to 50's
SPACE: Loft
LIGHTING: Semi dark with a dark room
GETTING IN: Email frape1984@yahoo.com

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
THE HOSTS SAYS: "Weekly sex parties in Brooklyn NY for in-shape men of color and a very very select few whites who send pics and get approved....I have the biggest and best Safe Sex party that continues to grow and become more popular. My parties are discrete and well organized. No shirts or under shirts are allowed. If your stomach is too big, you will not get in. No weed smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. I provide a safe, comfortable, spacious environment for men of color."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS / BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $15
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, refreshments, fresh clean towel
TIME: 12midnight-7am
FREQUENCY: held every Friday, Sat and Sunday
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SPACE: Huge space, two floors.
LIGHTING: A bit dark but eyes get used to it.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men of color, men into men of color, men who like to play safe
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, out of shape guys.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@alisthomeinspection.com with your pics and stats



ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. This is not a mandatory clothes check party but it is highly recommended that you check your valuables. Pickpockets have been known to clean out pockets while pants are around ankles. I also find the level of aggression to be higher at this party than most and that it seems to attract a handful of men that do not know how to respect boundaries or take "no" for an answer. But as long as you go in armed with this knowledge and react accordingly, there are usually some hot early morning times to be had here.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: no attitude
SS/BB:
A mix of safe sex and barebacking
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: condom/lubes
TIME: 3am-7am, (The party really takes off around 4am when many bars close)
FREQUENCY: every Friday and Saturday night
CROWD: Gets around 70 people on Fridays and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning).
AGE: no restriction
SPACE: Paddles sex club
LIGHTING: Good, some dark areas
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who like a diverse crowd, voyours, average and out-of-shape guys, tourists/visitors, guys who want to get off after the bars before they head home.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys only into gym bodies, guys with attitude.
GETTING IN: Check out Paddles' website for location and directions: http://paddlesnyc.com/




Saturday, February 21st


DICKPLAY PARTY (Bronx) Party at Ed and Steve’s, an interracial couple. The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian. Most guys are naked, but not required. 
THE HOSTS SAY: "Announcing the grand reopening at new Bronx location.Mandatory Total Nudity (no undergarments, jock straps, flip flops, socks, headgear, jewelry) We provide refreshments and snacks, condoms and lube. Bring your own booze. No glass bottles. 
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: Laid back, no attitude
TIME:
8pm to 2am 
CROWD: 20-40 men
AGES: 18-60s (Average age is 35-45+)
DONATION: $10 before 9pm $20 after
SS/BB: Some safe sex, but mostly barebacking
SPACE: Private apartment
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Usually twice a month, but often weekly (on weekends)
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve


THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.
THE HOST SAYS: "Hot playground with mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back

SS/BB: A mix of safe sex and barebacking
 DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
TIME: 8pm-5:30am
FREQUENCY: Every Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Latinos, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: For more party info contact the hosts at playgroundqueens@aol.com


NYJP (Midtown) New York Jock Party is one of the largest parties in NYC and also widely considered one of the best for those looking for jocks with toned and muscled physiques. The host is very discriminating so the place is filled with hot men. It can also at times be filled with attitude, but that seems to come with the territory. This is not a party for the modest or shy as you are required to check everything including your underwear, and you will be given a small towel to cover up. 
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
RATING: Very Selective
VIBE: Attitude
TIME: 10pm-4am
CROWD: 50-70 young, hot men
AGES: Mostly 20s and 30s, a few in-shape men in their 40s
DONATION: $28 before 2am, $20 after 2am
SS/BB: A mix of safe sex and barebacking
SPACE: Hot, clean, huge studio space, two bathrooms, shower
SUPPLIES: Drinks, snacks, condoms/lube.
FREQUENCY:  Two times a month, Fridays, Saturdays, Sundays, sometimes Thursdays
LIGHTING: Good, with some dark corners
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to thenyjp@gmail.com

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
THE HOSTS SAYS: "Weekly sex parties in Brooklyn NY for in-shape men of color and a very very select few whites who send pics and get approved....I have the biggest and best Safe Sex party that continues to grow and become more popular. My parties are discrete and well organized. No shirts or under shirts are allowed. If your stomach is too big, you will not get in. No weed smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. I provide a safe, comfortable, spacious environment for men of color."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS / BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $15
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, refreshments, fresh clean towels
TIME: 12midnight-7am
FREQUENCY: held every Friday, Sat and Sunday
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SPACE: Huge space, two floors.
LIGHTING: A bit dark but eyes get used to it.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men of color, men into men of color, men who like to play safe
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, out of shape guys.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@alisthomeinspection.com with your pics and stats


ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. This is not a mandatory clothes check party but it is highly recommended that you check your valuables. Pickpockets have been known to clean out pockets while pants are around ankles. I also find the level of aggression to be higher at this party than most and that it seems to attract a handful of men that do not know how to respect boundaries or take "no" for an answer. But as long as you go in armed with this knowledge and react accordingly, there are usually some hot early morning times to be had here.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: no attitude

SS/BB: A mix of safe sex and barebacking
 DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: condom/lubes
TIME: 3am-7am, (The party really takes off around 4am when many bars close)
FREQUENCY: every Friday and Saturday night
CROWD: Gets around 70 people on Fridays and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning).
AGE: no restriction
SPACE: Paddles sex club
LIGHTING: Good, some dark areas
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who like a diverse crowd, voyours, average and out-of-shape guys, tourists/visitors, guys who want to get off after the bars before they head home.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys only into gym bodies, guys with attitude.
GETTING IN: Check out Paddles' website for location and directions: http://paddlesnyc.com/



Sunday, February 22nd

THE BEAR PARTY (Chelsea)
THE HOST SAYS: "NYC's premier sex party for bears, cubs, chubs and chasers."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB:
A mix of safe sex and barebacking 
DONATION: $25
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube
TIME: 1:30 to 5:30pm
FREQUENCY: Weekly on Sundays
CROWD: 30-50 guys of all ages
LOCATION:Paddles club, basement level
LIGHTING: Good, dark in some rooms
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races, average and out-of-shape guys.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies. Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: For more info you may contact info@bearpartynyc.com or go to bearpartynyc.com to join




BEARCAVE (Gramercy)
THE HOSTS SAY: “This is an all-inclusive party for all big men of different shapes, sizes, races, and their admirers. Bringing the Bear Community together for hot steamy afternoon fun. A great way for anyone looking to get off before the weekend wraps up."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Social and Friendly

SS/BB: A mix of safe sex and barebacking
DONATION: $25, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
TIME: 2pm-6pm
FREQUENCY: Weekly
CROWD: 40-50 guys, all welcome: bears, cubs, chubs, otters, wolves, and bulls
AGE: All ages (over 21)
SPACE: Private duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with hairy masculine men. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction. Men into facial hair, tattoos, and fur-covered action.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: Request invite at: bearcavenyc@verizon.net. You can find more info at: www.gayguysglobal.net




NEW YORK JACKS (Midtown) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off.
THE HOSTS SAY: "Get naked with us and enjoy man to man cock play....Mutual masturbation between consenting adults is legal and safe. Probably the safest activity you can do except for solo J/O. We are a friendly group of guys and we are all there for the same reason and to have fun. You'll see guys there of all ages, body types, sizes, etc. There will be tall, short, hairy, well endowed, young, older, all races, gay, married, bi-, etc. We don't discriminate against physical attributes, only inappropriate behavior."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: N/A
DONATION: $25 ($20 with membership card)
SUPPLIES: N/A
TIME: Doors open 4pm to 6pm, jerking until 7pm.
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Tuesday. (Check for different hours on Tuesday)
CROWD: Varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. (Usual attendance numbers have not been given.)
AGES: 18-60s
SS/BB: N/A
SPACE: A loft-type space
SUPPLIES: N/A
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Request location and directions at their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/
Follow them on Twitter twitter.com/nyjacks and on Tumblr at nyjacks.tumblr.com



THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.
THE HOST SAYS: "Hot playground with mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back

SS/BB: A mix of safe sex and barebacking
DONATION: $17
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
TIME: 6pm-2am
FREQUENCY: Every Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Latinos, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: For more party info contact the hosts at playgroundqueens@aol.com



NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) For anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 7pm-2am
CROWD: varies
AGE: It's always a mixed crowd in terms of age.
SS/BB: Safe sex
SPACE: Held in a BDSM club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off.
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday night
LIGHTING: At 11pm they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like).
GETTING IN: Check out the site at www.NYBondageClub.com



PEAK (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station.
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."

VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 6pm to 10pm (doors close at 9pm)
FREQUENCY: Every Friday and Tuesday (Mixed Safe Sex and BB parties every Sunday and Thursday.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.


THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
THE HOSTS SAYS: "Weekly sex parties in Brooklyn NY for in-shape men of color and a very very select few whites who send pics and get approved....I have the biggest and best Safe Sex party that continues to grow and become more popular. My parties are discrete and well organized. No shirts or under shirts are allowed. If your stomach is too big, you will not get in. No weed smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. I provide a safe, comfortable, spacious environment for men of color."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS / BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $15
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, refreshments, fresh clean towels
TIME: 9pm-3am
FREQUENCY: held every Friday, Sat and Sunday
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SPACE: Huge space, two floors.
LIGHTING: A bit dark but eyes get used to it.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men of color, men into men of color, men who like to play safe
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, out of shape guys.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@alisthomeinspection.com with your pics and stats


MYKONOS SEX PARTY (JACKSON HEIGHTS)
FROM THE HOSTS: "Come join us for a Hot Underwear or all nude sex party in
Jackson Heights Queens. Play with guys from all races into insatiable sex with decent to in shape hard and pumped up masculine men. Held in a large pre-war apt. Two large rooms from semi light to dark for an all interracial friendly group orgy night of hardcore man sex! Relaxed sexually charged environment and gay forward neighborhood. Address is 35-06 73 street Apt 4F. Ring bell to be buzzed in. All details are here on the ad so come just join in Friday's and Sunday evening. Guys don't waste time with endless conversation and questions when they arrive but quickly start playing."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open door
VIBE: Social with a friendly host
SS / BB: A Safe Sex party
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: Beer, Condoms, lube, Clothes Check provided.
TIME: 10pm to 5am
FREQUENCY: Weekly Fridays and Sundays
CROWD: 20-50 guys
AGES: 20's to 50's
SPACE: Loft
LIGHTING: Semi dark with a dark room
GETTING IN: Email frape1984@yahoo.com



FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). From the host: "This is an all nude party. No exception and no negotiation about it at all. Strip at door. For fit men in shape only, no one waist over 36 will not get in."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: no attitude.
TIME: SUN. 11:30pm-4am
CROWD: AGES: mostly 20s and 30s, few in-shape men in their 40s
DONATION: $10 all night
SS/BB: A safe sex party
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: Drinks, snacks, condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Sundays, Tuesdays and Thursdays.
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to finaldestination1514@yahoo.com


Monday, February 23rd

PEAK (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station.
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 6pm to 11pm (doors close at 10pm)
FREQUENCY: Every Friday and Tuesday (Mixed Safe Sex and BB parties every Sunday and Thursday.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.



JACKS OF COLOR "MASSAGE AND PLAY MONDAY" (Chelsea) Jacks of Color (often referred to simply as J.O.C.) is a New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." One of my favorite of the "open door" general admission parties. It’s huge and has themed parties including leather, massage, and afternoons on weekends. And the host is one of the sweetest guys I've ever had the pleasure of meeting.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2am
CROWD: 50-70
AGE: 18-60s
SS/BB: Some safe sex, but more barebacking
SPACE: Paddles
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Monday night, and often other weekday nights and weekends.
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to JacksOfColor@gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com




HANDSOMENYC.COM (Astoria, Queens) Host Hunteur brings his party to Astoria on Monday nights to the Rainbow Playground, home of the Omega parties.
THE HOST SAYS: “So many parties out there are all about the ‘sleaze.’ What’s wrong with bonding with a great group of exceptional, intelligent men- the sexy 'guy next door' type? All races welcome. This is a place to enjoy the company of handsome and good-hearted great quality guys with sense of community. We are supportive of the artistic community with nights devoted to the arts. Guest appearance by porn stars, fantasy dress up, as well as fun giveaways (underwear and porn), and great promotions to pull in hotter guys."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: No attitude

SS/BB: A mix of safe sex and barebacking 
DONATION: $16 7pm to 8pm, $20 8pm to 12am
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, cookies/cake, refreshments
TIME: 7pm to 2am, doors close at 12am.
FREQUENCY: Every Monday night
CROWD: Average attendance is 30 to 60 great quality guys
AGE: 23 to 55-ish
SPACE: A large industrial loft-type space with many private cabins and rooms and a cinema lounge.
LIGHTING: big space, 5000 sq. feet with several different lighting levels
A GOOD PARTY FOR: those who want an erotic connection with upscale sexy guys.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: guys with attitude or 'high-maintenance" types. The host is “looking for happy and upbeat dudes that want to add their good energy to the night.”
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to Oliver at (hunteur1@gmail.com). You can find more info at (http://www.HandsomeNYC.com).




MUSCLE GROUP (West Harlem/w140s) This is a small sex party in a private apartment. This party can be hit and miss depending on how many and who show up, but when it's "hit" it can be a very hot party indeed. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies in the city. At most parties guys are having sex one-on-one or in threesomes--at this one there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 9:30-11pm, occasionally lunch parties
CROWD: 4-10 guys, racially mixed very hot to average
AGES: 18-40 YOs
DONATION: Free
SS/BB: Mostly safe sex, but lately there have been reports of some barebacking
SPACE: small studio apartment
SUPPLIES: condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: parties at random, but often on Mondays,
LIGHTING: Excellent
GETTING IN: Send pics and Stats to: BIHUNKGROUP@aol.com


Tuesday, February 24th

DADS FOR LADS PARTY (Midtown)
THE HOST SAYS: "Two older top friends and I host a monthly gathering of Sons and Dads in an upscale hotel during lunchtime weekday from noon-3pm. We have had parties in Sept, Oct, Nov, and Dec. All quite successful. Usually about 20-30 show up with almost equal numbers of dads (over 35, HWP) and Sons (under 35 also quite fit). It is a safe sex party and supplies are provided."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Social and Friendly

TIME: Noon--3pm 
CROWD: 20-30 guys
AGE: All ages (over 21) 
DONATION: None
SS/BB: A safe sex party
SPACE: Upscale Hotel usually Midtown West
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
FREQUENCY: Varies by weekday. Usually Thursdays or Tuesdays
LIGHTING: Good
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Friendly, outgoing, no-attitude individuals who enjoy interaction.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: For more party info, please contact NYCDADS4LADS@Gmail.com

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off.
THE HOSTS SAY: "Get naked with us and enjoy man to man cock play....Mutual masturbation between consenting adults is legal and safe. Probably the safest activity you can do except for solo J/O. We are a friendly group of guys and we are all there for the same reason and to have fun. You'll see guys there of all ages, body types, sizes, etc. There will be tall, short, hairy, well endowed, young, older, all races, gay, married, bi-, etc. We don't discriminate against physical attributes, only inappropriate behavior."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: N/A
DONATION: $25 ($20 with membership card)
SUPPLIES: N/A
TIME: Doors open 7pm to 9pm, jerking until 10pm
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Tuesday. (Check for different hours on Sunday.)
CROWD: Varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. (Usual attendance numbers have not been given.)
AGES: 18-60s
SS/BB: N/A
SPACE: Paddles Sex Club
SUPPLIES: N/A
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Request location and directions at their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/
Follow them on Twitter twitter.com/nyjacks and on Tumblr at nyjacks.tumblr.com



PEAK (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station.
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 6pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Friday and Tuesday (Mixed Safe Sex and BB parties every Sunday and Thursday.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.




Wednesday, February 25th

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) "Slurpee Coach has the parties in his apartment."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: No Attitude
TIME: 7-11pm (Wednesday), early afternoon-evening (Saturday)
CROWD: TK
SS/BB: TK
SPACE: Private apartment
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY: weekly (Wednesday), occassionally (Saturday)
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com

THE BEAR PARTY (Times Square)
THE HOST SAYS: "NYC's premier sex party for bears, cubs, chubs and chasers."
Clothes check policy at the Time Square location. It's completely nude so no underwear is allowed; however, if you're shy they have small towels you can hold over yourself.
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back

SS/BB: A mix of safe sex and barebacking
DONATION: $25
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube
TIME: 1:30 to 5:30pm doors closet at 10
FREQUENCY: Weekly on Sundays
CROWD: 30-50 guys of all ages
LOCATION: Times Square Loft
LIGHTING: Good, dark in some rooms
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races, average and out-of-shape guys.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies. Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: For more info you may contact info@bearpartynyc.com or go to bearpartynyc.com to join


HANDSOMENYC.COM (Chelsea) This party from host Hunteur replaces Hard Drive on Wednesdays.
THE HOST SAYS: “So many parties out there are all about the ‘sleaze.’ What’s wrong with bonding with a great group of exceptional, intelligent men- the sexy 'guy next door' type? All races welcome. This is a place to enjoy the company of handsome and good-hearted great quality guys with sense of community, we also offer totally free STD Testing and referral to free health care for life and also referral to Harm Reduction Services. We have a permanent medical office on location. You do not need to pay the entrance fee to access our services- you may get tested and leave. We are supportive of the artistic community with nights devoted to the arts. Guest appearance by porn stars, fantasy dress up, as well as fun giveaways (underwear and porn), and great promotions to pull in hotter guys."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: No attitude

SS/BB: A mix of safe sex and barebacking
 DONATION: $22 before 9pm, $27 after, or use your silver VIP card for $22 admission all night long.
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, cookies/cake, refreshments
TIME: 8pm to 3am, doors close at 1am.
FREQUENCY: Every Wednesday night
CROWD: Average attendance is 30 to 60 great quality guys
AGE: 23 to 55-ish
SPACE: Paddles – a huge, clean, 5000 sq. feet of professional play space. A fully licensed Commercial Sex Venue licensed by the state and also licensed as a medical off-site testing facility with a secure guarded area to keep your belongings locked up and safe.
LIGHTING: big space, 5000 sq. feet with several different lighting levels
A GOOD PARTY FOR: those who want an erotic connection with upscale sexy guys.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: guys with attitude or 'high-maintenance" types. The host is “looking for happy and upbeat dudes that want to add their good energy to the night.”
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to Oliver at (hunteur1@gmail.com). You can find more info at (http://www.HandsomeNYC.com).



Thursday, February 26th

EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy)
THE HOSTS SAY: “Lunch-time party for businessmen looking to hook up weekday afternoons, offering guys who generally can't play during the evening hours (because of wives, girlfriends, boyfriends, or partnered) a chance to bust a quick afternoon nut in a large group setting.”
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Social and Friendly

SS/BB: A mix of safe sex and barebacking 
DONATION: $20 entry, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
TIME: 12pm-3pm
FREQUENCY: weekly
CROWD: 30-40 guys, all races welcome, a mixture of gay, bi, and straight-curious men looking to explore their sexuality in a safe environment.
AGE: 21-55, most guys in their 30's and 40's
SPACE: private duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with the suit-and-tie crowd. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction. Men in their 30s and 40s and Jocks who like older Daddy types. Guys who find wedding rings a turn-on.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) and Stats to: executivelunchnyc@gmail.com. You can find more info at: www.gayguysglobal.net




THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.
THE HOST SAYS: "Hot playground with mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back

SS/BB: A mix of safe sex and barebacking
DONATION: $15
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
TIME: 5:30pm-3am
FREQUENCY: Every Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Latinos, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: For more party info contact the hosts at playgroundqueens@aol.com




PEAK (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station.
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."

VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 6pm to 10pm (doors close at 9pm)
FREQUENCY: Every Friday and Tuesday (Mixed Safe Sex and BB parties every Sunday and Thursday.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.



MYKONOS SEX PARTY (JACKSON HEIGHTS)
FROM THE HOSTS: "Come join us for a Hot Underwear or all nude sex party in
Jackson Heights Queens. Play with guys from all races into insatiable sex with decent to in shape hard and pumped up masculine men. Held in a large pre-war apt. Two large rooms from semi light to dark for an all interracial friendly group orgy night of hardcore man sex! Relaxed sexually charged environment and gay forward neighborhood. Address is 35-06 73 street Apt 4F. Ring bell to be buzzed in. All details are here on the ad so come just join in Friday's and Sunday evening. Guys don't waste time with endless conversation and questions when they arrive but quickly start playing."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open door
VIBE: Social with a friendly host
SS / BB: A Safe Sex party
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: Beer, Condoms, lube, Clothes Check provided.
TIME: 10pm to 5am
FREQUENCY: Weekly Fridays and Sundays
CROWD: 20-50 guys
AGES: 20's to 50's
SPACE: Loft
LIGHTING: Semi dark with a dark room
GETTING IN: Email frape1984@yahoo.com


FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn) 
From the host: "This is an all nude party. No exception and no negotiation about it at all. Strip at door. For fit men in shape only, no one waist over 36 will not get in."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: no attitude.
TIME: SUN. 11:30pm-4am
CROWD: AGES: mostly 20s and 30s, few in-shape men in their 40s
DONATION: $10 all night
SS/BB: A safe sex party
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: Drinks, snacks, condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Sundays, Tuesdays and Thursdays.
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to finaldestination1514@yahoo.com






See you there men!